Tonight the boys and I had a light supper since Jeff was away (at his last pottery class); and at the end of our meal as the boys were munching on these pretzel sticks, they started making letters (and a few words) with them--and for Josiah, that progressed to shapes. He made all the shapes he could think of that only use straight lines: square, triangle, rectangle, trapezoid, diamond, pentagon, hexagon, octagon. It was fun to see him work on this project completely from his own initiative. What a yummy way to learn!
And now, for a report on my own educational experience, entitled "What I Learned Today."
I learned...that there are actually sweeter words that can come from Josiah's mouth than "I love you, Mommy." When he says looking across the dinner table to his little brother, "I love you, David. I love your beautiful eyes," I realize that to see Josiah's sibling love grow is truly more refreshing than me being the object of his affection. I guess this is because mommy love seems so natural to a child, but brother love (when said brother has been known to take your toys, invade your space, and divide your parents' attention) seems harder to cultivate. How many prayers have I prayed for my boys to get along and be great buddies? How many times have I anguished over their seemingly endless ridiculous conflicts? How earnestly do I long for them to be lifelong best friends? Countless prayers...unspeakably deep longing...and now to see a glimmer of light in their relationship is truly sweet. I'm not so naive as to assume that all will be joy and harmony from here on out! But I do feel encouraged by Josiah's expression of brotherly love today.
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What a sweet and innocent thing for Josiah to say!
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